6. Conclusion - Now that you have
told him who you are and what you want, paint a picture of what
your lives might be like together. Something romantically
appealing works wonders. Woo him. Be careful in your invitation not to use
negative or conditional words like - if you are the one. Instead
of this use - you are the one I would love to warm up by the fire
with. He will know when you are speaking to him, if he is the
one. Use these final words to make him feel like a kindred
soul.
Once your ad is structured
coherently we must now ensure that the following elements have
been included.
1. Salutation - Short, polite. Hi!
or Howdy, whatever best suits who you are.
2. Descriptive adjectives -
Positive and powerful superlatives which will enhance his imagery
experience and build curiosity. Let your zest for life and love
infect him through your description. This is all he has to go by at
this point.
3. Spelling and grammar - Look
intelligent, educated, and thoughtful.! Consult a spell check or
dictionary and correct errors. We are not all English professors,
perhaps you have a trusted friend who will help you formulate a
correct and appealing ad. If you can do it all on your own then it
is usually a good idea to have someone critique your
writing.
4. Warm text - Use key words that
stimulate emotion. Words such as fun, romance, love, happiness,
and feel give a warmth to your writing and will give him a
positive reading experience. Again, this will give him a little
insight as to what life with you might be like.
5. Courtesy - Don't use harsh
language or slang. You will want to come across in a Christian
personals forum as polite. Let your faith speak in the gentile
tone of your words. Remember you are
appealing to Christian men.
Even if your audience were going to
be bikers, manners are still safe and appreciated. We realize
that there is a trend of extremism out there that feels the need
to shock. This is even more prevalent online than in public since
there is no authority to keep people like that in check. He will
appreciate you even more for being a lady online. We stress
this point which to most just seems like common sense because this
is what gets the best results.
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