You're response to her
Christian personals service ad will be in the form of an email. Fortunately this gives you a
significant edge if you will follow the outline below.
1. Send a unique query -
Don't mass email to fifty women who catch your eye. Don't send form
letters, this shows lack of inspiration, and originality not to
mention lack of effort. Send an original email to her.
2. Respond to her
specific ad - Use her words. Give genuine compliments. Tell her why
you qualify based upon her specifications given in her ad.
3. Give her more
information about yourself - Things like; how she may contact you
(your personal ad mailbox address) to check you out. Give more
general information about yourself. Don't be pushy for a reply at
this point.
4. Try back - If she doesn't
respond right away, try back after a few days. Sometimes we get
distracted by the noise of life, remember, she wants to be contacted
or she wouldn't have placed an ad in the first place. Write back
telling her of the first letter you sent and express your interest
once again. She may be testing your resolve to meet her!
5. Closing statement -
Tell her what pleases you about her. It may be the only compliment
she has heard all day! She'll respond.
6. Be positive and
polite - Invite them to write back soon. Use words like please,
thank you, and sincerely. And remember that these are Christian
personals!
Gentlemen, you will reap
what you sow with women. Plant good quality seeds for the best
performance and outcome. Hurried quantity with multitudes of
women will probably not pay off, but patient quality will.
Best wishes from the
staff at The Eden Project!
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