How to write a dynamite Christian personal ad cont.
Let's begin by discussing structure.
Structure will give a logical flow to your audience (The ladies).
There is nothing worse than a scatter-brained personal that is too
busy, it really turns women off.
1. First things first, let's begin
with the picture. Women are not visually stimulated in the way men
are, so seductive is not the key. You must be well groomed and
approachable. Look into the camera. Looking away will make you seem
aloof. Use inviting body language. Smile, and bear your neck dimple.
(Where the collar bone meets the neck) Military uniforms and
business suits (ties) cover this area for a reason. We cover this
vulnerable area so as not to portray vulnerability. In your personal
ad you want vulnerability. Remember you are targeting women.
For a more in depth overview of inviting body language see the
section on body language in the Christian personals primer on the
site map.
2. Salutations - According to Parade
magazine a simple Hi! is a great opener. no one expects you to open
with complicated greetings. This is just the ice breaker. (See
primer section on the five levels of communication)
3. Personal introduction - Give your
name and or nickname if you wish.
4. Biographical information - Start
out with an opener which will grab her attention and reach into her
heart. Appeal to her emotionally. Women are emotionally centered.
Make her have to read your ad! After this stage give her just
the facts. This directness shows strength and confidence. Both are
qualities which women need. These qualities trump all others.
(See primer)
Be honest and avoid the heartbreak of
separation caused by dishonesty. Maybe she would rather have a
plumber than the CEO of Microsoft after all! Let her know your
faith. Women love conviction in a man.
This is your bio, so include what you
wish. Items usually mentioned are; age, occupation, marriage history
and children, race, place of birth, where you live, favorite foods,
entertainment preferences, hobbies, music tastes, and education.
Finally, give them some tangible
asset about yourself to make her want you. No boasting. Put it in
such a way that you do not seem arrogant. Put it something like -
I've been told that I have a great sense of humor or that I'm a
great cook.
5. Your desires. Now that you have
told them you know who you are, tell them you know what you want. Do
you want a down to earth gal? Say so. The divas will be repelled and
the woman who appreciates it most will answer your call. Be
descriptive and to the point!
(To cont. dynamite Christian personals ad
primer click below)
Another
great Christian personals service, and friends of the Eden Project.
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