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Whether Christian dating online or off everyone has their own unique shopping list of preferences that they are looking for in a companion. The criteria are almost boundless. Women may be looking for a rugged man or a man with a good sense of humor or brown hair. Most of these traits are things which we cannot control such as eye color, height etc. You will not be able to appeal to all of the women all of the time, but you can appeal to many of the women much of the time! How is this done?

You probably know someone who was looking for a certain type, but finally settled down with someone who supposedly was not his or her cup of tea in the beginning, right? The fact is that we all make concessions on our shopping lists. Most traits are negotiable, they are secondary, but some traits are not negotiable and are universal among women seeking a mate. These universal qualities are so crucial that they override all other traits on a woman’s shopping list. Women do not know what it is intellectually that they need, but they do know intuitively. These universal traits are powerful!

Do you recall the cons who steal women’s hearts? (Like the guy below) They have mastered the art of projecting these universal traits which women need but are not cognizant of.

The con gets through her guard undetected. But you will take her heart in a way in which no criminal may. You will have her heart genuinely for your own. This is the way Christian singles should operate.
 

 YOU CAN BE THEIR CUP OF TEA!

If you genuinely project the five universal traits that women need you will likely win their heart. She may not have gotten what she thought she wanted on her shopping list but because you appealed to her deepest needs she will not regret her decision in choosing you instead of the blonde or the body builder.

Christian singles do you recall reading the old proverb: A woman’s charm is her strength, just as a man’s strength is his charm.?

What charms a woman is a man’s strength, please take a moment to ponder this truth. This is your first clue to one of the universal traits which a woman intuitively seeks out in a suitor. Convicts project this trait and many women fall for it because unfortunately in today’s culture the bad boy image is perceived to be strength. This is a social fraud which has somehow become a modern “truth” probably because the macho image was promoted very heavily in the past few decades in the media.

By the way, have you ever noticed Christian singles that dictators wear military uniforms? Saddam, Castro and Hitler (to name a few ) wear their uniforms because it symbolizes strength, courage, loyalty and honesty. Was Saddam really strong? Many would have argued yes, until we found him cowering in his rat hole. How many of these dictators would you consider honest, loyal, or brave? I’ll let you answer that no- brainer.
Most women love a man in uniform. Here we find some more interesting psychology at play. Why do women find uniforms irresistible? Is it because uniforms are sharp? Perhaps that is part of the reason, but not the real reason. Uniforms (especially military and police) speak to a woman’s heart. They are physical representations of an intangible and necessary ingredient for fulfillment with a mate.

With this Christian singles dating course you will have animal magnetism, not quite the same as the fellow below however!

Christian singles strength can only come from within, it does not come from wealth or political or even physical power. It’s fruits are courage, honesty, loyalty and confidence. I don’t want to ruin anyone’s book sales on ten reasons why honesty and truth are passé, but they are crucial in areas of romance and relationships. If you think that it does not take a strong man to practice these then you probably have never tried them on for size.

All women are looking for strength in their man whether “Christian singles” or others because therein lies courage. She knows that you will confront the prowler in the house and not ask her to do it. Women want equal rights, but not when the prowler comes around or when the Titanic is sinking. She depends upon you to do the right thing. Do you suppose a con or any of the uniform wearing tyrants would give up his seat on the life boat for a lady? Don’t bet on it because they are not really strong and will not do the right thing.

Men if you falter on any area of strength they will intuitively question your loyalty to them and the family. They need to feel secure in their relationship, they need a rock to build upon. Women don’t sit around and figure these things out like I just outlined; they know these things in their hearts, they are emotional beings. I hope you are beginning to catch my drift that men and women understand each other very well, we need to acknowledge that fact. Most men were raised by women and nurtured by them. To say that we don’t understand them is not precise- we would have no problem understanding most women from fifty years ago or a hundred years ago. We do not understand today’s woman who has been altered by feminism which is not feminine.

The unisex movement, women’s empowerment, and modern psychology have conspired to push the romantic humpty-dumpty off the wall and it’s been a great fall. compare the divorce rate of today to any other generation in the history of civilization. It’s no longer men and women but men vs. women. With songs like Love is a Battlefield, and shows like Battle of the Sexes sadly proving my point. it is the mission of this Christian dating service to remedy this modern tragedy. We were not created to compete, but to compliment. Competition will bring resentment, suspicion, anxiety, and anger. All destructive. We must be lay down our arms, and get back on the same team.

Don’t be alarmed gentlemen, the strength you need will come to you when you find that lady who steals your heart. It will come naturally - if you allow it.

Christian singles let us quickly re-cap. The first universal trait which women need in a man is Strength. The fruits or characteristics of strength are; honesty, loyalty, courage and confidence.

At this time we will rejoin the ladies for the next phase of the Christian dating 101 guide. Click Here