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How to answer a ladies ad - For Men

 

 

You’re response to her Christian dating ad will be in the form of an email. Fortunately this gives you a significant edge if you will follow the outline below.

1. Send a unique query - Don’t mass email to fifty Christian single women who catch your eye. Don’t send form letters, this shows lack of inspiration, and originality not to mention lack of effort. Send an original email to her.

2. Respond to her specific ad - Use her words. Give genuine compliments. Tell her why you qualify based upon her specifications given in her ad.

3. Give her more information about yourself - Things like; how she may contact you (your personal ad mailbox address) to check you out. Give more general information about yourself. Don’t be pushy for a reply at this point.

4. Try back - If she doesn’t respond right away, try back after a few days. Sometimes we get distracted by the noise of life, remember, she wants to be contacted or she wouldn’t have placed a Christian dating ad in the first place. Write back telling her of the first letter you sent and express your interest once again. She may be testing your resolve to meet her!

5. Closing statement - Tell her what pleases you about her. It may be the only compliment she has heard all day! She’ll respond especially if it’s sincere, but not to forward.

6. Be positive and polite - Invite her to write back soon. Use words like please, thank you, and sincerely. And remember that these are Christian dating personals!

Gentlemen, you will reap what you sow with Christian single women. Plant good quality seeds for the best performance and outcome. Hurried quantity with multitudes of women will probably not pay off, but patient a patient harvest will yield greater quality.

 

Best wishes from Dr. Luvlinks.

 

 

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