Why is it that after tens of
thousands of self help books, tapes, CD’s, lectures, courses, and
seminars have tried to solve our problems the problems just keep
getting worse? They have not delivered, but, then why should the
social gurus want to solve any problems? It would be counterproductive
for them to put an end to people‘s problems, they would lose all of
the power and control they have diligently worked for. Some of us have
successfully overcome our problems in life, but it is largely in spite
of the “masters” not because of them.
There are many more profound social
paradoxes which have cropped up in our generation which we will
discuss later. For now I would like you, the thoughtful reader to
ponder these ironies as we progress through the thesis of this primer
for Christian singles and put the pieces of the puzzle together. As we discover the answers
the principles will become obvious, and take shape in your mind. You will
outwardly express them effortlessly.
These germane points above are all
interrelated and will prove highly instructive for those of us who
wish to achieve our goals in finding deep, lasting, and loving
relationships with not just a spouse, but with all of those
around us.
Dear reader, when you go to bed at
night in the still moments before sleep does your heart tend to take
off on flights of fancy? This is your heart chasing it’s neglected
desires. We are all guilty of suppressing that starving heart
within. The day brings responsibilities, burdens, and disappointments
which conspire to quench the hearts flame. We tend to lose heart and
abandon our dreams. Is this you dear reader? What dreams have you
abandoned? Does your heart still cry out at the end of the day to be
heard?
Dreams are the engines of success in
any endeavor whether it be romance, business, or happiness. Our aim
ahead will be to restore your dream engine to it’s original
condition and get you motivated and excited again. Life does not have
to be dull, indeed it should not be dull. Let yourself live the heart’s
adventure you’ve been aching for all your life
.Since you are still reading this, I will assume that you are interested in freeing yourself to love
and dream as you were designed to.
Through the gathering chaos this single story of
truth is striving to be told to an audience such as you, the Christian
single. This is your key to the happiness which God has
purposed for your life!