Lines like this are used by them to
seduce you (the target) into believing that you now share this
incredible bond after an unusually short period of time. We highly
suggest you stay away from such people. Do not use lines like this on
others unless it is true and then don’t make a big deal of it as
they do by saying “this must be love written in the stars” or “that
you must be soul mates, meant to be.”
I don’t want to come across as
over dramatizing, but they are criminal minds who will engage in the
most intimate acts all the while planning your destruction. Their fake
disarming smile will seem so real, and reassuring, and their kiss so
very warm and tender that they cannot possibly do you any harm. Don’t
believe it. Judas Iscariot betrayed Jesus Christ himself with a kiss.
The difference is that Jesus was not deceived. (This is where we get
the phrase “the kiss of death” from)
Let us briefly review again. The
first two levels- cliché and facts are safe. They are known socially
as small talk or chit chat. When combined with the third level-
opinion, things begin to get more risky, but you still won’t reach
into anyone’s heart.
When at a party, we may use the
first three levels to work the room and still stay pretty safe while
making those ever important social connections with others. Most of us
use these three levels to exchange biographical information such as
age, birth place, kind of pet we own etc. We may use props when
relating at these levels, such as pictures, new clothing, new jewelry,
pets, or unique items. Many people have items called conversation
pieces. Most of us are pretty good as these levels.