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The
five levels of non-verbal communications
The intricacies of non-verbal gestures and
communications are incredibly complex in their structure and lexicon.
The subjects have been studied by thousands of researchers since
history began. Much is known and much is still conjecture. The aim of
this Christian personals service primer is to rightly divide
the truth from the lie. There are multitudes of wild conjectures out
there masquerading as "theories." Hopefully this will help
you sort through all of the analytical hype and psycho-bloviating. The
following is what is known to be true.
The first level of non-verbal communications:
1. The Encounter - Whatever the location, in the
supermarket or workplace we may encounter someone we are attracted to.
The initial cursory signs we may read at this point are;
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Eye Contact - At longer distances we may see one
another doing the "Sweep." This is where a man looks at
a perspective mate and sweeps across the room, not usually making
eye contact at first. He is testing her willingness to be looked
at. She in turn knows that the ball is now in her court and
responds with looking back if interested or turning away if she is
not. If she is receptive she may catch your gaze for a moment.
This gentlemen is your first clue. In closer quarters pupil
dilation is another give away that she is interested in you.
Ladies this goes for the men as well. This is a reflex and cannot
be faked, except for the use of Belladonna. In Europe women used
Belladonna (an extract of the nightshade family) to artificially
dilate their eyes to appear more seductive to men. Pupil dilation
is a blatant come hither sign, but hard to read from more than
five feet away. Caution : Some drugs used today (illicit
narcotics) have the same effect. Policemen are trained to read
pupil dilations and have their work cut out for them trying to
determine who is on drugs and who is interested in them. A
frustrating job!
"It is just as important to listen to someone
with your eyes as it is with your ears."- Bell Gold The
eyes clue others about emotions. The fixed stare can signal
intensity of fear, romantic interest, or aggression. Middle
ground eye contact signals interest, secure, at ease. Little
eye contact shows shyness, submissive, evasive, arrogance, and or
nervousness.
Sunglasses - May be worn inappropriately. When worn
on a date, and the sun is not an issue, this shows lack of
communication skills.
Jewelry - Large amounts of gaudy jewelry show
insecurity.
Tattoos and piercings - Earthiness. Some Christians
have left over tattoos and piercings from their old life, so take
this into consideration.
Nails - Bitten and uneven nails betray extreme
(usually hidden) tension. Well manicured and clean nails show
harmony and contact with the civilized world. Dirty nails may tell
of job or hobbies also. On a date, especially the first date, the
nails should be clean.
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