
Gentlemen, you're probably not going
to want to hear this, but the second universal trait which women
need is romance. Many of today’s liberated women deny the
need for such backward and demeaning gestures, but wait a few years
and see if that doesn’t cause major conflict in your relationship.
Men know that romance is
important, but are usually substandard at delivery. Romance requires
effort and a little finesse, there is no way around it. We must remember things like; our
six month anniversary, where we first kissed her, Birthdays,
valentines, our first date and so on. This is difficult for men, we
tend to be more practical and value other experiences. If you want
to be successful you will have to think of what she would want you
to value.
There are no concise and clear
definitions for romance. What qualifies for romance might be leaving
love notes where she can find them, or surprising her by washing her
car. What may not seem like romance at first glance may be.
Romantic behavior is developed
through years of observation. It is one of the most complex of human
interactions, and it’s rewards (for both parties) are deeper
affection, love, and passion.
Unfortunately romance comes easier
to women than men. We may not be aware of their romantic overtures
and may dismiss them at times as being a nuisance. Such as when they call us
to “check up on us” or they pester us about going out to eat (in
a nice place) once in a while. We usually see romance as an
inconvenience. Most women would love to be inconvenienced like this.
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